Guess Who??

Hey everyone! I know its been a long time, but I'm going to jump right in.

First Sarah, I am so sorry about your loss. I hope the love and prayers from your friends and family has been helping you get through this.

Reena, I am also sorry your country was attacked by terrorists. But I disagree with you and MaryStarr implying that is is America's fault. Terrorists have attacked multiple countries and we are the country that started trying to stop them. Of course Bush is an ass who tried to incorporate our oil war into the terrorist war. But the terrorists that live in caves in Pakistan and shoot rockets at my friends in Afghanistan have no value for human life, and have twisted views on right and wrong. My military friend saw an Iraqi woman chained to a wall, with her breasts cut off, her baby in her arms. Both had to starve to death, and she had to watch her baby go first, unable to feed her. They program their children to kill other people. They brain wash people to be suicide bombers. The world needs to work together to stop terrorists.

Not to mention India has been at war off and on with Pakistan over Kashmir over the past 20 years. That could also be fuel added to the fire, not just us Americans.

And Gen, I am sorry that you are going through hard times with Bruno. Why won't you leave him? I am big on trying to work out marriages, but he is an asshole, and a liar. He does NOT have a woman friend. He thinks by telling you about her, saying she's married, somehow justifies his affair. But he is having one, whether you allow yourself to see it or not. I first suspected him of being capable when he wouldn't have sex with you for a year, but this is another step. Its almost like he is trying to tell you but you won't listen. Camping? Dinner at your house when you're gone? No. Those are not allowed when you are married. A lunch here and there is acceptable, a double date with you and her husband is allowed, but I draw the line at over night stays. (Camping and the dinner night--why was he late to the wedding?) I hope you will too. Maybe his month off will help, but if he wants to work things out with you he has to be kept on a short leash. He needs to allow you to call the shots. And he must stop his "friendship" with this other woman. He has a lot to proove if he wants to stay. And you are right on about your kids learning to be abusive from him. Don't allow that to happen! Oh, and the whole weight loss and exercising is another huge sign that he is trying to impress someone. Stop letting him manipulate you so you can enjoy your life. You need and deserve so much more than he is giving you. And, you and he should probably both get checked out for STD's. Who knows how many men she's cheated on her husband with, and unfortunately the same goes for Bruno.

Sorry for just barging in here after so long and flapping my mouth in the way that I did. I know I was bitchy and I hope I didn't offend anyone, but I was shocked at some of the things I read! I also know your marriage Gen is none of my business, but despite my absence I care about you and want you to be happy. It is my opinion, and you don't have to take it as advice if you don't want to and I am not trying to attack you in any way. In my own way, I am trying to help give you the strength to do what is going to be hard for you. Your future is what you make of it, and I know you can have a blissful future when this hard time passes.

I know I missed some updates, but I hope everyone is healthy. I'll update more on what I've been up to later.

~Michelle